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Sebagian pasangan yang menjalani hubungan stabil menyatakan belum membutuhkan komitmen melanjutkan hubungan menjadi lebih serius. Alasannya, bukan karena takut berkomitmen namun lebih untuk menikmati kebebasan dan tetap membuka peluang untuk menggoda orang lain. Alasan ini pula yang sering menjadi trik para lajang. Mereka menginginkan kebebasan penuh dan tetap ingin berpetualang. Benarkah demikian? Ada beberapa pertanyaan untuk mengetes komitmen pasangan sebelum beranjak ke hubungan jangka panjang seperti dikutip dari Yourtango. 1. Apakah Anda selalu mencari alasan bersikap kritis terhadap pasangan Anda atau hubungan yang Anda jalani sekarang? 2. Apakah Anda sangat membutuhkan ruang pribadi sehingga tampak egois? 3. Apakah Anda berhubungan dengan orang yang tidak terlalu cocok dengan Anda? 4. Apakah Anda mendasari sebuah hubungan atas ketertarikan fisik semata? 5. Apakah Anda selalu mencari cara mengakhiri hubungan atau melarikan diri saat hubungan memasuki tahap lebih serius? 6. Mengatakan pada pasangan yang sebenarnya ideal bahwa hubungan kalian terlalu rumit atau terlalu sibuk mengejar karier? 7. Menetapkan standar pasangan yang terlalu tinggi? 8. Apakah Anda menunjukkan tanda-tanda takut komitmen dalam aspek lain di kehidupan selain hubungan asmara? 9. Anda merasa takut mengalami perceraian atau masalah seperti orang tua Anda? 10. Apakah Anda mengalami pelecehan di masa kecil Anda? 11. Apakah Anda tak pernah meminta maaf pada pasangan meskipun bersalah? 12. Apakah Anda mengalami patah hati setelah mengalami hubungan romantis di masa lalu? Jika jawaban beberapa pertanyaan di atas adalah ya, maka itu berarti kemungkinan Anda memang fobia komitmen. Setelah menyadari bahwa Anda memiliki fobia pada hubungan yang lebih serius, ingatlah bahwa ini bukan keengganan yang disengaja. Tindakan yang Anda lakukan terdorong dari ketakutan alam bawah sadar sehingga memilih pasangan yang tak cocok. Kalaupun bertemu dan menjalin kasih dengan orang yang tepat, Anda lebih sering menyakitinya agar hubungan bubar dan tak berlanjut ke hubungan serius. Akibatnya, Anda lebih sering sendiri dan kesepian. Untuk mengatasinya, perlu untuk menanyakan pada diri dan mempelajari lebih lanjut tentang alasan yang mendasari fobia dan apa yang Anda inginkan. Ini berguna saat Anda memasuki hubungan baru dan memelihara hubungan tersebut ke jenjang lebih serius. Beritahu pasangan dan upayakan menyembuhkan fobia Anda, agar memiliki hubungan yang layak dan sehat.
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Many women feel that men are the creature who is dismissive and far from romantic. Character 'venus' and 'mars' is different.
Women are more romantic side show by delivering the goods or make a romantic dinner. While he is not giving a rose, but gave little attention and did every day.
As reported by the Yourtango, there are nine romantic thing in the eyes of men. It was not anything complicated. Origin comes from the heart, something that simple was able to carve a smile on his face.
1. Curious and ask
Show your curiosity about what she thought, felt and desired him, by asking. Asking questions about self-image as well as providing time and space for him to answer him feel appreciated.
They will feel that you care and feel special. Ideally, he'll find something in themselves or are aware of some things you never thought about before.
2. Full attention
Generally, women talk more than listen. Try to give full attention to whatever he was talking about. It's important to keep her love to you. As well as in face-to-eye. This shows a genuine interest in that you feel comfortable with it.
3. Say what you want
Men will appreciate it because they are sensitive creatures that can not guess your mind. By saying what you want and what they do not like will make her feel very valued as a 'partner' of a reliable in establishing a serious relationship.
4. Show appreciation
Do not hesitate to praise for what he has said or done. This is another way, explicitly, expressing affection. They could feel and see the love you just the attention and appreciation. That's romance for men.
5. Say what you want to do both
Start a conversation about planning is a way to send a message that the decision is not entirely in his hands. You should also tell him if you want to spend time together. It would also be very well related to the quality of communication for future relationships.
6. Ask questions to make it more open
Men love it when you ask questions that encourage more open. It is also a sign he believes and let you go in life.
Ask questions related to self-knowledge can create a rare opportunity, to obtain other information that you did not know. You may also send a message that you want more
knew him. Thus, it can be more open to you.
7. Understand him
Understanding is a basic human need. In a simple way, the understanding can serve as the basis of the definition of love and intimacy. Take time to understand the experience that she felt understood.
Understanding is a bridge that connects the two of you in a deeper way. A leading couples therapists, Harville Hendrix, called the understanding as 'mirroring'. It is a very important communication skills.
8. Give a surprise
There is a prevailing stereotype that men will always be busy doing something and imprisoned in the routines that they can not avoid.
Just give the couple a surprise, so they will remember you. Moreover, there is nothing wrong with being more spontaneous in a relationship.
9. Celebrate special moments in the relationship
Your relationship is a joint effort. This celebration can bring attention to the roles, differences, strengths, and weaknesses of each. Not only makes you and her feel special with one another, but also always looking for ways to feel special relationship.
Romanticism in the eyes of men is to have a deep relationship with and hooking into a different person. That's because you will live with a good friend as well as soul mates.
For you may all look ordinary and unromantic. However, the important thing for men is the presence of a woman beloved by his side.
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Sebagian pasangan yang menjalani hubungan stabil menyatakan belum membutuhkan komitmen melanjutkan hubungan menjadi lebih serius. Alasannya, bukan karena takut berkomitmen namun lebih untuk menikmati kebebasan dan tetap membuka peluang untuk menggoda orang lain. Alasan ini pula yang sering menjadi trik para lajang. Mereka menginginkan kebebasan penuh dan tetap ingin berpetualang. Benarkah demikian? Ada beberapa pertanyaan untuk mengetes komitmen pasangan sebelum beranjak ke hubungan jangka panjang seperti dikutip dari Yourtango. 1. Apakah Anda selalu mencari alasan bersikap kritis terhadap pasangan Anda atau hubungan yang Anda jalani sekarang? 2. Apakah Anda sangat membutuhkan ruang pribadi sehingga tampak egois? 3. Apakah Anda berhubungan dengan orang yang tidak terlalu cocok dengan Anda? 4. Apakah Anda mendasari sebuah hubungan atas ketertarikan fisik semata? 5. Apakah Anda selalu mencari cara mengakhiri hubungan atau melarikan diri saat hubungan memasuki tahap lebih serius? 6. Mengatakan pada pasangan yang sebenarnya ideal bahwa hubungan kalian terlalu rumit atau terlalu sibuk mengejar karier? 7. Menetapkan standar pasangan yang terlalu tinggi? 8. Apakah Anda menunjukkan tanda-tanda takut komitmen dalam aspek lain di kehidupan selain hubungan asmara? 9. Anda merasa takut mengalami perceraian atau masalah seperti orang tua Anda? 10. Apakah Anda mengalami pelecehan di masa kecil Anda? 11. Apakah Anda tak pernah meminta maaf pada pasangan meskipun bersalah? 12. Apakah Anda mengalami patah hati setelah mengalami hubungan romantis di masa lalu? Jika jawaban beberapa pertanyaan di atas adalah ya, maka itu berarti kemungkinan Anda memang fobia komitmen. Setelah menyadari bahwa Anda memiliki fobia pada hubungan yang lebih serius, ingatlah bahwa ini bukan keengganan yang disengaja. Tindakan yang Anda lakukan terdorong dari ketakutan alam bawah sadar sehingga memilih pasangan yang tak cocok. Kalaupun bertemu dan menjalin kasih dengan orang yang tepat, Anda lebih sering menyakitinya agar hubungan bubar dan tak berlanjut ke hubungan serius. Akibatnya, Anda lebih sering sendiri dan kesepian. Untuk mengatasinya, perlu untuk menanyakan pada diri dan mempelajari lebih lanjut tentang alasan yang mendasari fobia dan apa yang Anda inginkan. Ini berguna saat Anda memasuki hubungan baru dan memelihara hubungan tersebut ke jenjang lebih serius. Beritahu pasangan dan upayakan menyembuhkan fobia Anda, agar memiliki hubungan yang layak dan sehat.
Terjemahan Bahasa Indonesia ke Inggris
Many women feel that men are the creature who is dismissive and far from romantic. Character 'venus' and 'mars' is different.
Women are more romantic side show by delivering the goods or make a romantic dinner. While he is not giving a rose, but gave little attention and did every day.
As reported by the Yourtango, there are nine romantic thing in the eyes of men. It was not anything complicated. Origin comes from the heart, something that simple was able to carve a smile on his face.
1. Curious and ask
Show your curiosity about what she thought, felt and desired him, by asking. Asking questions about self-image as well as providing time and space for him to answer him feel appreciated.
They will feel that you care and feel special. Ideally, he'll find something in themselves or are aware of some things you never thought about before.
2. Full attention
Generally, women talk more than listen. Try to give full attention to whatever he was talking about. It's important to keep her love to you. As well as in face-to-eye. This shows a genuine interest in that you feel comfortable with it.
3. Say what you want
Men will appreciate it because they are sensitive creatures that can not guess your mind. By saying what you want and what they do not like will make her feel very valued as a 'partner' of a reliable in establishing a serious relationship.
4. Show appreciation
Do not hesitate to praise for what he has said or done. This is another way, explicitly, expressing affection. They could feel and see the love you just the attention and appreciation. That's romance for men.
5. Say what you want to do both
Start a conversation about planning is a way to send a message that the decision is not entirely in his hands. You should also tell him if you want to spend time together. It would also be very well related to the quality of communication for future relationships.
6. Ask questions to make it more open
Men love it when you ask questions that encourage more open. It is also a sign he believes and let you go in life.
Ask questions related to self-knowledge can create a rare opportunity, to obtain other information that you did not know. You may also send a message that you want more
knew him. Thus, it can be more open to you.
7. Understand him
Understanding is a basic human need. In a simple way, the understanding can serve as the basis of the definition of love and intimacy. Take time to understand the experience that she felt understood.
Understanding is a bridge that connects the two of you in a deeper way. A leading couples therapists, Harville Hendrix, called the understanding as 'mirroring'. It is a very important communication skills.
8. Give a surprise
There is a prevailing stereotype that men will always be busy doing something and imprisoned in the routines that they can not avoid.
Just give the couple a surprise, so they will remember you. Moreover, there is nothing wrong with being more spontaneous in a relationship.
9. Celebrate special moments in the relationship
Your relationship is a joint effort. This celebration can bring attention to the roles, differences, strengths, and weaknesses of each. Not only makes you and her feel special with one another, but also always looking for ways to feel special relationship.
Romanticism in the eyes of men is to have a deep relationship with and hooking into a different person. That's because you will live with a good friend as well as soul mates.
For you may all look ordinary and unromantic. However, the important thing for men is the presence of a woman beloved by his side.
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